Four Ways to Revitalize your Meditation Practice

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Habit is the opposite of mindfulness.

Structure and routine are your friends.

If you accept either of these as true, take a moment to think about how they work together. Take meditation, for example – how do you find a balance between having a steady meditation routine and not letting your spiritual practice stagnate?

Other than finding a teacher, which we highly recommend, here are four suggestions to bring more joy, energy, and spontaneity into your meditation practice.

1) Exercise vigorously before you sit

Do you slide onto the cushion straight out of bed, or exhausted at the end of the day? If so, do you find you’re lacking the energy to stay alert on the breath and the arisings?

Try some vigorous activity just before meditating and see how this affects your sits. What does vigorous mean? Think running around your house three times. Think as many jumping jacks as you can manage, as fast as you can do them. Think running on the spot, bringing up your knees as high as you can.

Of course, safety first, so base what you do on what your body can cope with.

Then, do some stretching of the face muscles, jaw, and that yoga lion pose “aaaaah” while sticking out the tongue, and you’re good and invigorated, and ready to sit.

2) Sit with other people

If your meditation time is your “quiet time,” then perhaps think about opening it up to others once a week. We need to wind down, yes, and meditation helps us feel grounded and calm. And connecting others will enrich the experience and keep us from getting in an introspective “me-time” rut. It’s about generosity – sharing your space with someone who may appreciate the connection and motivation.

So, invite a friend to sit with you once a week, or a few times a week. Tell a few friends what time you meditate and make standing invitation for them to join you. You could even start a local online Meetup group to help motivate yourself and others.

Aside from the added motivation and discipline to sit, doing it with others offers a richer energetic experience. After the sit, try reviewing the meditations together – each person speaking about their sit using the four foundations of mindfulness: body, feeling (pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral), mind states, and objects of mind.

Honor the space by separating the practice time from any socializing, which tends to take us back to habit mind. This could be by moving into another room to talk, or agreeing beforehand that there’s no need for more than simple goodbyes.

3) If you’re “too busy to sit”, give yourself permission to sit shorter

If one reason you feel your meditation needs revitalizing is that you’re not sitting regularly, are you saying to yourself “it’s an hour or nothing?” Let’s face it, ten minutes a day is better than nothing. In fact, lots of ten-minute sits might be better than just once a week for 50 minutes on Sundays. If you can get it to 20 minutes a day, even better.

To take this point a little wider, try looking for any assumptions that might be stopping you from having a regular meditation practice. This could be a perfectionist or all-or-nothing mindset, or carrying some guilt, blame, or other self-defeating beliefs about giving yourself time to meditate.

4) Book your next retreat

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I wrote another blog about this some time ago. When I started meditating, I knew it was a life changer for me. I didn’t want my motivation to waiver in six months and end up looking back with regret two years later.

So I looked ahead and booked a retreat, and that cemented my daily practice in a whole new way. I didn’t have to look back in 15 years and think “ah, why did I stop meditating?”

That was a 21-day retreat and I booked it eight months ahead of time, but it could be a weekend retreat if that’s what you can fit in or afford. Anything that helps you keep the practice going.

Practicing with Clear Sky

As well as our meditation cabins, Clear Sky offers other ways to boost your practice. EARLY BIRD RATES are still available in our Insight Meditation Retreat, March 15-24, 2019. Check out our fourth Ignite Your Spiritual Life online course, starting April 6th, 2019. 

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